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Come As You Are : An Interview With Emily Nagoski

Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life by Emily Nagoski is a must-read for anyone interested in human sexuality...

SoS #389: Come As You Are : An Interview With Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Emily Nagoski and Chris Maxwell Rose of The Pleasure Mechanics talk about the new edition of Nagoski's book, Come As You Are

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Before Pleasure Comes Safety

Intimacy, pleasure and erotic arousal all require a sense of safety to emerge. In this episode we explore why the human body needs to feel safe before...

SoS #388: Before Pleasure Comes Safety

What does a sense of safety have to do with pleasure, arousal and even orgasms? Turns out, everything!

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Fantasy Vs. Desire

A crucial step in understanding your erotic imagination is making a clear distinction between FANTASY and DESIRE.  Many people try to start talking...